What makes you different?

Don’t choose to be an engineer just because it pays well.

“The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.” - Lao Tzu

If you’ve read this far, let me tell you one more thing.

Does the U.S military really prosecute military staff for cheating on their spouse, or do they close one eye if the cheating does not involve other military personnel since adultery is fairly common? Adultery is illegal in U.S military

P.S. What’s your idea of being different? Do you have a different point of view?

C’mon, it’s an opportunity to break the rules, stand out and become ONE of a kind.

What makes you YOU.

Can women learn to squirt?

Experiments: My life has been a group of experiments that failed to take off until I resorted to writing.

Being different is being a weirdo. And being okay about it.

Tried everything. A well-paying corporate job, govt. exams. Nothing provided me with security. I didn’t have time to myself. Hustling was my name. Didn’t go to parties, travel or anything. Didn’t talk to friends.

Have you made a female relative or friend squirt?

Yes, I was not at all happy.

Anxious to get a job, I chose to do what was socially recommended for me. So, I tried. Being a govt. servant. Failed. A Research Scholar. Didn’t make it. A Professor. Guess what?

Everything has shaped me. Friends who gave me their pens and journals. Best friends I never made. Crush that made me write poems while he didn’t care. Romances I’ve missed. Opportunity to become an editor or a news correspondent I missed. I think all this has made me the writer I am.

How do I stop my 12-year-old daughter from crying herself to sleep? I have punished her and she still does it.

So, keep on experimenting.

"Life is a journey, not a destination. Enjoy the ride." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

You can be fearful and still use it to tame your weaknesses and build your emotional strength.

Why do untreated borderlines always blame their partners when they actually think they are normal?

I experimented. A lot. And now I know I don't need more trials of this kind. I’m writing this today at just the right place from the comfort of my home while it rains outside. While a cold breeze rings music to my senses.

Honestly, there’s nothing that makes ‘me’ different.

Consider a rat who never came out of the hole fearing for his life. He stayed in the dark for years and died one day, unbeknownst.

Do you agree with Pete Hegseth's comment that Obama created a moral divide between military and civilian life?

What if he’d come outside?

Take my word. You won’t regret it.

To take out these experiments, accept the asymmetry of your emotions, your eccentricities, aspirations and thoughts for what they actually are. Instead of filtering it through the social system, recognize the difference and apply it in your life.

Win a signed pink cycling jersey of Giro winner Simon Yates - Team Visma

Being different is being a mess, yet being okay with it.

"Be yourself; everyone else is already taken." - Oscar Wilde

Not because people show it off and you have to follow the lead.

What is one fantasy you have never told anyone about but really want to do?

Even if that means disappointing your parents and teachers for some time, but believe you’ll eventually make them feel proud.

A govt. job could do it for me. Plus Money, plus security, plus prestige.

Don’t get a partner because you’re jealous of your friends.

Hello, I have a question about astral projection. I started to get interested in this a little while after my mum passed in april. I thought I may be able to see her and speak with her if I managed to achieve astral projection. Since this interest, every time i sleep on my back I go into sleep paralysis. However, I cant progress into astral projection because it is very scary for me as I feel like I'm suffocating when this happens. I panic and force myself to wake up. This only ever happened about once a year before this. It sometimes lasts a long time. This has happened about 3 times per week since my mum died, as mentioned on a previous post. I no longer try to go into it anymore(due to the suffocating feeling), but it still happens. I read that sleep paralysis is the pathway to astral projection. Why has this started to happen so frequently since simply taking an interest in it? Is this connected to the afterlife? I am concerned about it as I now cannot seem to stop this happening. Could it be my mum trying to communicate? Im asking due to more knowledge around this in this group.

Not ignoring emotions because they can be destructive. Not underestimating your aspirations because society calls them second-rate.

I know being a writer is no different. But my journey is different. Its unique to me.

Experiences: What has happened to me? Have I led a normal life with two parents and two siblings? Yes. Breakups I’ve had. Friends I’ve made. School I have attended. Guides I’ve met. Places I’ve been.

Why would the state lie about the Earth's shape? We know that it's flat, but why do they lie and tell us that it is a sphere?

Until the day I choose to listen to myself. I let my subconscious go wherever it wanted me to go. It was not just in dreams I wanted to live, but in real life. Not allowing others to cloud my personality, my ability, my inclination towards philosophy, knack to motivate others, and my indifference towards others’ opinions.

All of it would have been different, and this life would mean something, at least for him.

Do anything and everything because you like it. You love it. Do the things that make you go crazy. Things you’d barter your breath for. Things that make your life a rainbow.

Why did my ex-narcissist move so fast with his new supply marriage engagement moving in, etc.?

He would have experienced the miracle called light. Maybe he got better food to eat. Then he got wounded. Then in search of balm, he travaled to the wilderness and found a party of rats, eaten to its heart’s content and danced the night out.

You know how all of this enlightenment came to me.

Agree?

I'm very sick. 72 years old. I thinking I'm losing my mind. My dead friend told me it's going to be okay. I could feel him. There is more…I don't know what but more.

So, what actually makes us all different?

Don’t drink because everybody does today.

Can you make it?

Do you believe that social media companies should allow posts spreading misinformation about election results, as suggested by Rep. Jim Jordan?

I have always wanted to write things. Wrote poetry during my grad and reluctantly left it for preparation of a govt. exam because who’s got extra time for it.

Long story short, here I am. Being a writer. Doing things I’d always love to do. Sharing my experiences of what I learnt.

Become different not according to the world, but according to what you like and what you don’t.

I am an ordinary human being with the same body structure as you who are reading, you and I have the same material of what our bodies and brains are made up of.

Being different is being okay with failure, so you know what the dessert of a win tastes like.

Don’t go to the gym because it’s a fitness fad.

Neither I’m Tesla, who got poor grades in school, nor I’ve grown to invent electric current that powers many electronic devices today. Nor I’m an entrepreneur who is the idea behind the Tesla cars.

Without experiments, is life worth it.

Indeed, a number of other factors contribute to your uniqueness, but that’s for you to introspect.

Otherwise, thank you for reading. It was fun writing to you all. Hope it helped you in more ways than one.

I always yearned to go for government jobs because I had a few relatives already into it and doing well with money and security. And here is me, with an arts background, uncertain about what to choose.